Mentioning of quicksand to my girl

[Viridian]

When I shared my interest with my (then) fiance (now just somebody that I used to know), I actually found it easy to explain. She was into light bondage, and I drew parallels about how it was like the (more common) interest in mud, but with the "restricting" and "peril" kick from bondage. It was quite an interesting discussion, and she would later bring it up in fantasies to appeal to me.

[veryzeppelin]

i have been very lucky regarding this subject i have had two girlfriends in the past who have tried my fetish with me and have enjoyed it. the key is honesty i did try and hide from my ex wife and it ended in disaster so i think i learnt my lesson. but also had little help from mpv dvds

[Ace]

Both my ex's have been cool with it (more than cool, I'd even go as far as to say accommodating, if you know what I mean). I'm with someone new now, and she asked about fantasies and whatnot, so I told her. This was after about two weeks of knowing each other. She's also totally cool, and wants to try it with me.

It's really not as huge a deal as it seems. Just don't be super weird/creepo about it, and I don't see how it could possibly turn out badly.

[wysvp]

I shall reveal that my wife knows, and has absolutely no interest. And she knew early on (we've been married 25 years).

That tidbit probably explains why I became a producer!!

Mike

[cududes]

Invite her out skinny dipping. She'll says sounds like fun or gross. If you get her out there grab a little mud off the bottom and give her a message.

Hope for the best.

Cududes

[willnholly]

I have been trying to come up with a "smooth" way of bringing this up with my girlfriend; watching videos containting quicksand scenes, sending her clips from youtube, and making comments. Closesest I have come to gtetting her "into it" was at the beach last summer. As we were walking on the beach, there was some soft, wet sand (unfortunately, only ankle deep), and I made the comment, "kind of quick-sandy", to which she replied, "you wish". I said, "yeah, I do", and she just smiled.

Hopefully, this summer I can find something deeper...

[Fred588]

I have been trying to come up with a "smooth" way of bringing this up with my girlfriend; watching videos containting quicksand scenes, sending her clips from youtube, and making comments. Closesest I have come to gtetting her "into it" was at the beach last summer. As we were walking on the beach, there was some soft, wet sand (unfortunately, only ankle deep), and I made the comment, "kind of quick-sandy", to which she replied, "you wish". I said, "yeah, I do", and she just smiled.

Hopefully, this summer I can find something deeper...

I would advance the theory that not only have you already brought it up, but she has understod perfectly well.

[Ace]

...I made the comment, "kind of quick-sandy", to which she replied, "you wish". I said, "yeah, I do", and she just smiled.

Yeah, that sounds to me like she's already snooped your browser history or something, saw your stash of vids or whatever, and, if you're not using hyperbole or projecting your own desires when describing her positive reaction, I'd say she's open to the idea, and you should just out with it.

[Mynock]

I have been trying to come up with a "smooth" way of bringing this up with my girlfriend; watching videos containting quicksand scenes, sending her clips from youtube, and making comments. Closesest I have come to gtetting her "into it" was at the beach last summer. As we were walking on the beach, there was some soft, wet sand (unfortunately, only ankle deep), and I made the comment, "kind of quick-sandy", to which she replied, "you wish". I said, "yeah, I do", and she just smiled.

Hopefully, this summer I can find something deeper...

ROFL......dude just stop beating around the bush....she officially knows you have a kink/fetish/interest/whateveryoucallit.
Find a good spot and take her sinking. If she hasn't run away yet she's probably not going to.